I talk about mindset, skills and tools in this article on what to do after no contact. You'll have to prove to her that you can better that if you want to win her back. Instead of immediately going all in which could backfire drastically should anything not go according to planit would be better to perhaps remain on friendly terms first, and fact find a little more about her current situation with her date, as well as to rebuild familiarity and comfort towards you. I sent her a short letter about me apologising and briefly mentioning that I have changed my life around and that I would like to see her in person. My ex part 3. To answer your question on whether she has moved on, it would honestly depend on how early on in the 7 years of marriage she began to feel this way about you but usually for a relationship of 7 years, it is unlikely that she has completely moved on. We broke up because of my insecurities, trying to control her and attention issues.
We were very good together, laughed often and always in contact.
Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Even if She has Moved on to a New Boyfriend (Without Looking Desperate)
I hope she figures out what I really need from her to even just be friends. Hopefully, just getting back in touch with you and realizing she still has feelings for you should be enough for her to break up with her new boyfriend. Some people take longer than others and face more difficulty, but not all hope is lost as long as you're patient. She broke up with me for a number of reasons; commitment fears, wanting to be independent, because she couldnt be in a co-dependent relationship, because she didnt find me attractive anymore and stopped loving me. But, if you have not healed till now and you are not ready; she will choose the other guy over you and might even decide to commit to him. So I stopped sitting around and got a job, switched my life habits, started going to the gym, and ended up losing over 15 pounds now.